Hi, Helena! Welcome to the forum. Throwing your stuff away is called purging, DO NOT PURGE! Mostly because you may throw something you may want later and it is too late and it costs money to replace things! I would say go with the pantyhose and shoes and nailpolish then add maybe a dress or a blouse and skirt or pants. Take it slow and make an outfit at a time. Goes as far as you want no pressure it is you not someone else. It is not going away and you might as well enjoy. Best wishes going forward! Hugs Lana Mae