Funny you should say this, Carla.
One thing I brought up during the talks was that my crossdressing was an ENHANCEMENT; an ADDITION to me and my persona. It doesn't subtract anything from me, my talents, values, abilities, etc. IMO, this strange but beautiful aspect of me deepens my human experience; not to mention that it is personally liberating to not have to conceal the inner life I have.
Thanks, Carla. Wonderful.