I agree with Rhonda Jean. I think U have a bigger issue with being bi than u think. The way u over explained it tipped me off!
She knows you're bi, u already told her. I think u may have fantasies of dressing and being with men? Otherwise, why do u keep connecting your dressing with being bi? I think u object too much with your promising not to have sex with men. I think u should talk with a therapist before u have the "talk" with your wife!
