Quote Originally Posted by Stephanie47 View Post
"It came to a head during an argument on something else!" Why the heck did you think it was alright to lay a bombshell on your wife when you were arguing about something else? I don't know what your motivation may have been. IMHO it sure seems like piling on. Were you trying to hurt her?
Maybe the other argument were somehow connected to this issue (maybe that was about hiding things too). Maybe it risulted in them being honest to eachother and Michael took the chance as they were in "the mood of being honest". Obviously he was not trying to hurt her. Coming out is really hard and there is really no "best" time to do it. If everything is ok then "why mess this up" and if you are middle of another argument then "why bring up more issues it's enough". I think this type of procrastination leads to get busted and that's the worse way of all...