I wasn't "one of the guys" when growing up. But, I wasn't one of the girls either, Tokemo! I was pretty much what I was then; just me!
As far as admiring women's figures? I have always done that. And, now I get to admire mine as well! (Check my avatar).
I'm 77 and have discovered it's not all that hard to present a female figure if u really want one!
