Quote Originally Posted by Stephanie47 View Post
My personal view is your porn addiction blew up your marriage.
Stephanie, I think that you are right that she was fine with the cross dressing but I must have crossed the line when i was trying to go on estrogen especially without discussing this with her first. I think the pornography just reinforced the sense of betrayal. She believes that i have been having physical relations with other men. Nothing I say to her can change her mind on this. She also accused me of having been deceiving her about this for the past 32 years. That I somehow came up with this plan to get her to marry me so that I could hide my homosexuality behind our marriage.

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Quote Originally Posted by kimdl93 View Post
By now, you’ve certainly gotten a broad spectrum of advice.
It is like following a trail and finding pearls of wisdom strewn about. I am free to chose what pearls to keep and what pearls to leave behind. But i do appreciate that so much experience and wisdom has been cast along my trail. I thanks everyone of you who has taken the time to offer your advice.