Oh Star, I hope you are not serious about belonging.
Even though there are those of us who think otherwise, not only about this topic, but many others, dosent mean we who are in a DADT relationship are hated.
We all have our opinions about relationships, presentation, and the path of happiness we all choose to take.
Part of all that is having opinions. If we can't present these opinions, then yes, why are we here?
The old saying, "Take it with a grain of salt" seems to be the best advice we can remember when participating in ANY social media site, now days.
Everyone has an opinion, no matter how hard we try to, we won't change their way of thinging.
And, if we let cancel culture stop all of us from presenting our opinions, we are no better than dictators!
....all my friends call me 
