Jessica, you're new here as I was when I first came to CD.com a zillian years ago. I was loaded with guilt and shame from my "silly, time wasting, fetishy hobby"!
But, folks here reminded me: "You're not breaking any laws, doing anything wrong, or hurting anyone but yourself."
It took a few years but I finally bought into that concept. And, altho I'm still a closet dresser in the town where I live, Sherry's blossomed into a fixture at bars and clubs in nearby LA, at T events in Vegas and around the country, and has traveled the world with her Asian T buddy!
U can be the CD or trans you're meant to be, too. U don't need to love your fem self, just learn to accept that side of yourself!
