This story here ^^
Don't use your wife as a shield also don't allow her to BE a shield. Women aren't/shouldn't be shields for men .. I don't care if she supports it or not .. you are grown. Many times we go overboard trying to help because most of us xx's are wired to nurture our loved ones and we want to see them happy even if it is at our own expense .. and you wont know until Its too late ... she may not even know until one day she can stand no more .
This was one of the first cracks in the wall for me with my ex , he would use me to hide behind like you are speaking of instead of owning it or not doing it or staying in the house or whatever . I finally got sick of it . I don't want to babysit a grown man in women's clothes when its his idea to do this .. The final straw was when he was rushing to hide behind me so fast he knocked me down .. that was the beginning of the end and I had been 100% supportive .. TOO supportive for maybe 6 years by that time .
This could just be a thing you do when you feel like it .. not all have to make it a lifestyle .
You don't have to answer me at all just keep it in your pocket ..
