Well girl, I guess I should be the one to go against the grain here. I agree with what everyone has been saying about his embarrassment and confusion, but disagree with them about how to handle it. If you are strong enough, then I think what you should do is force the issue. Dress him, help him get as feminine and passable as it is possible given his looks. Insist on it, use sexual interest to do so if neccessary, turn him on and he will do it even if he keeps saying no, then get him looking as nice as possible. Then reward him by showing how much you like what you see by whatever way you feel you can. He needs to get over his guilt, and doing this for him will convince him you are better than ok with it. He cannot leave this alone, it will always be part of his, and if you stay with him, your lives. Make sure it is a GOOD part! I wish you luck dear no matter how you end up dealing with it...
