Sorry BethanygirlOriginally Posted by Bethanygirl
I agree with what everyone has been saying about his embarrassment and confusion, but disagree with them about how to handle it. If you are strong enough, then I think what you should do is force the issue. Dress him, help him get as feminine and passable as it is possible given his looks. Insist on it, use sexual interest to do so if neccessary, turn him on and he will do it even if he keeps saying no, then get him looking as nice as possible.
Not all CDR's want that, so I have to disagree, mine needed to find his own comfort level with somebody else knowing, and nobody should ever be forced into doing something they are obviously uncomfortable with. Do that and things could go badly wrong
Jess
