I'm bi 24/7, 365. If there had been an on/off switch growing up, I would have switched it off. But, there's not one.

It honestly sounds like people that get dressed up like women and then are attracted to men (and, only attracted to men when dressed like a woman) are ruled by their own heterosexual biases. This bias would be that women are passive and submissive, and they need a big, strong man to for sexual encounters.

If you have noticed, men in these fantasies are almost like another accessory to the CD. "I got mah heels, mah purse, and mah big, strong man." It's like another accessory to a justification of finally being a woman. And, part of the fulfilling their own checklists for what is feminine and what is not is their own heterosexual bias that women should be with men. Even the bias of women being passive and men being in control takes into play. Come on, how many "sissies" and everything else are on this site? How many gladly play the passive role because they think it is what a woman should be and how she should act?

There's your sign.