I think the area which I know confuses me the most is when some say "when I drab I am attracted to females but when I'm dress I am attracted to males". Like one one said earlier "magical clothes". I would like a set of magical clothes please. Probably a maid uniform so I will want to clean me house and enjoy doing it
Either you are attracted to men or you arnt. Clothes or no clothes. It's not like a gay or even bi person goes "ok today I'm wearing brown shoes so I'm attracted to just women today and men just turn me off"
Bi curious is a good word to be used. Cause it's different from bi since pol who define themselves as bi know that they enjoy both genders as to bi curious they are unsure if they will enjoy it or not but they entertain the idea.
Then what gets me is the ppl who talk about these "fantasies" but who are in relationships and say "I want to be with a man BUT I'm married " or "but my wife doesn't know. The Internet is a funny thing cause it does not keep your secrets no matter how careful you try to be.. The day could come that your wife just happens to stumble upon the posts and notices you and she ends up devistated. But it's all good cause you only want to be with men when dressed which will ease her mind...
I know there are questions that a lot get asked when they tell friends or loved ones they are a CDer. A couple are "do u want to be a woman now?". And the other "are you gay?". Yet a lot when replying to posts will say "make sure you let them know your not gay and not dll CDer are gay" (which is true not all CDer are gay). But how do we just jump to that conclusion about someone else when quite a select few on here talk about being with men.. Just curious and this was all jmo and no hard feelings Pls from my statements.
