It may just be that growing up in a black and white world you end up forced to wrap your own feelings around society's standard and they end up being distorted.
Perhaps the only thing anyone can do is be honest with your SO about your feelings from the start.
If you want to pick apart a mind distorted by repression I'll offer mine.
I consider myself bisexual.
My attraction to males is 99% in the dream world where 99% of my dreams are me with men.
In the awake world I find very few men attractive, but more women catch my eye.
But that has nothing to do with CD at all, thinking about getting dressed does give a physical reaction but that's not why I'm interested in it.
Maybe people are being forced into thinking they have to be linked, or maybe the act loosens their inhibitions and allows them to find males physically attractive.
- Broken brain #1,566,2104 signing out