In my previous career I worked in the beauty industry. Over 18 years with women as clients. I listen to not only their good times but not so good one's too. Through all if these stories which had led to issues within their relationships, the one defining emotion was that of feeling betrayed. The trust factor and what being lied to then did to them as women.Originally Posted by ReineD
I understand telling a potential partner you CD could spell the end of that relationship, I also believe it's the right thing to do if you love someone. Telling the truth ain't easy but living a lie is a hell of lot harder on not only yourself, but the person who your hiding the truth from. And frankly, from my experiences, the "truth" always comes to light eventually.
Granted back when you got married Leslie it was different world and as you say Men were Men and Women were Women. So I can't imagine the stress on your shoulders at that time.
Albeit, this doesn't help your situation Leslie. I just felt it was important to write what I feel, in hope others here who maybe in the start of a new relationship may see why it's a good idea to fess up now than later.
