Rita,
Great post. I totally agree. Many things in life require perspective and balance, including crossdressing. I love to fly fish too, but if I spent every waking hour tying flies and every weekend on the water, I would be neglecting my wife and kids. The same goes for CDing, we must use some common sense and put the needs of our loved ones first. That is why communication is so important. I think too many of us who have supportive SO's sometimes think that their support is a license to do what we want when we want. Many get in trouble with this attitude. Communication, compromise, and love is the key.