You know I deeply respect you, Rita, but I'm wondering if you are being way too hard and one-sided?!!! Crossdressing is more than "there can be benefits to others." CDing is also not just something most of us "decides" to "take up." The "pink fog" is extremely selfish, but most find their way through this -- sometimes with, and sometimes sans, help from another. Going overboard and self-absorbtion are dangerous!!! Balance IS a necessary element to a healthy, happy life. Crossdressing can be "done right."
Guess I'm trying to say that this is one possible outcome, but it doesn't have to be the only potential outcome!!! It all comes full-circle to balance!!!