I object!! (Bangs gavel.....Order Order!!)
You make it sound like it's crossdressing that is the problem. As if it is some terrible thing that takes you over. But pink fog aside, it is no more or less an evil than golf, or fishing, or football, or any other activity that gives you pleasure.
Any activity that is not possible to truly share with anyone else (and maybe you don't want to anyway) is ALL ABOUT ME!
Watching the sport on tv is ALL ABOUT ME!
Reading a book is ALL ABOUT ME.
And so on.
It's when you do it all the time the problems start.
