Tessa you're right about marriage being sacred. I hid my dressing from my wife for over thirty years. She knew I liked womens clothes, but had no idea to what extent I liked them. I was afraid she would leave so I dressed in secret whenever I had the chance. About 4 years ago we got the subject in the open and had many long talks about my dressing. Her greatest fear was and still is that I would leave her for another CD'er. I love her greatly and would not let my dressing some between us and our marriage. Now that she is fully aware of my dressing, she is very supportive of it. She helps me shop and has taught me many things to look for in clothes and lingerie. I enjoy my time dressed now more than ever. I am thankful things worked out the way they did. She told me in one of our early talks that if she would have known before we got married, she would have broke things off. I am glad we are together and she supports me in this. Sorry for the long post, but didn't know any other way to put it. Thanks for letting me vent.
