I can only speak from my own experience. Three women; two say they are comfortable with my dressing. I split from the first - nothing to do with non-acceptance. The second split from me - nothing to do with non-acceptance. In both instances, CDing was cited as a major cause (by the women). My present SO was pleased when, the other day, I packed all my girly stuff away, despite her claim of total acceptance. I can pick up the vibes!
That's just the way it is around here.
