Gabrielle-
I agree with you whole heartedly. I love your confidence in who and what you are whether in male or female mode. I agree that i want want to be the best I can be in either mode. I also spent most of my life denying who and what I actually am and only in the past few years have come to love myself completely. I don't understand why people have to be judgemental about who we are. They are not in my shoes and could never understand the things I've been through to get to this point in my life. I too love being girly when in femme mode and wouldn't have it any other way. But in guy mode I'm all guy. But side of me are happy with who I am. I will admit that I seem to be a little more at ease in femme mode but that what I am and I don't want to try and analyze it to death to come up with a reason for it. I just know that I am and I go with the flow. Thanks for starting this thread and thanks for giving a reason to voice my opinion.