Shay's Rebellion. "there are rules for everything and exceptions for every rule"
Honesty.
Not needed.
Check your marriage CONTRACT. It's alot like your job CONTRACT. A handshake and a promise don't cut it, you sign your name.
I really can't see Batty's or MissConstrued's Significant Others being too shocked to find out they dig on chick's clothes.
If you swear to your Priest that you are going to abide by all the Laws of the Church, make sure you're not biting off more than you can chew.
I'd say most crossdressers do it 'cause they get off on it.
If you played with dolls as a kid and peed sitting down, a dress is not a cure, a dress won't make your life easier. Honestly, your life is going to be difficult.
If you value something, protect it.