Probly not too much help here, but the second picture reminded me alot of Bill Kaulitz from Tokyo Hotel XD ( for those not in the know of Bill: http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/f...1929022998.jpg )

Bills a very pretty boy, even when he does the massivly poofed/spiked thing with his hair. XD

Anyways, being fairly new here as well, welcome to the forums you can get SO much info and support from everyone here.

So I guess my only advice is really...

Haircut: Go with something that suits your face and male 'feel' you want to portray. Each style has its own pros and cons just as with female haircuts. If you have it long now and worry about going short, maybe get a mid length cut first and see how it goes before say trading in for a buz cut. If in doubt, buy a wig to see how you look and feel in a short short 'do. There are lots available out there even short 'boy' styles.

Again to beat the dead horse ace bandageds no, proper binders yes They have ones for tops as well as lower body binders from what Ive seen to give less curve to your body and help make it look a bit square/flatter.

I'll likely get smacked butttt... If you are in the USA Hot Topic might be a good place to look. Every time I've gone I've been able to get soem great 'every day' stuff at good prices. Tshirts, pants, hoodies, etc etc. Hit the sales rack too >.>... Im a sales junky and you can find some fantastic deals on stuff there. Other than that, depending on where you are bum around head shops and even possibly a Walmart if you can. I get alot of basic guy stuff from the evil that is walmart but hey, its good quality and good prices so it helps if your budget is limited.

As for passing hey well that takes time really. I dont think I pass at all and Im going for the whole androgynous goth boy look most days, but my friends tell me otherwise and I'm sure your's will too. Plus when it comes down to it, its more about how YOU feel about yourself and what makes you feel happy and whole right? So start slow and work towards things you want and soon you'll find a look for you thats right for you to be happy with

(If none of this made sence, im sorry.. its 3am and I really should be banned from any form of posting whem im kinda half asleep ^_^

Reguardless, as one of the token goths 'round here, if you need shopping tips, makeup tips, hair tips etc give me a hollar and I'll give you all the info I can

Once again, Welcome and good luck!!

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