Reine, your last line is perfect...
But the fantasies are real and they are much more prevalent than people like to admit, including Tri-ess.
Oustide of the effects this has on an SO, being someone who is not attracted to men at all, in anyway, having those thoughts and fantasies pop up when they occurred was, and still is a very confusing thing because it just doesn't add up, for me anyway. As pointed out many times in this thread, with over 22,000 views, this IS clearly a thought process for most CD's and I would imagine for many, it is also one of the most confusing things to experience.
This discussion is great and has covered so many areas around it, but at the bottom of it all and perhaps a better question for many of us is why do these desires occur in the first place? Like me, a lot if not most have stated they are not attracted to men and only have these thoughts when dressed. I have been thinking about that a lot and made a seperate post about why that may be for us heterosexuals, but it got merged into this and is a few pages back. For me, I am trying to understand were they come from. If I can find MY reason, then I can better deal with it. :D
