I am so afraid to tell ym wife about my crossdressing, because in my heart I fell she will never accept it. My worst nightmare is her divorcing me (I could live with that) And telling my family (I would have a real hard time with that, elderly parents). I fell telling her would empower her by giving her information she can use against me. But on the other hand the need to dress and express my fem side is growing, so not sure where I will end up. I would like to have some money left for this expensive habit, but I can relate to the divorce breaking you.
Good Luck
