CDs just want to be loved by a strong masculine man just like any other girl. Men that date CDs are not into the male parts. In most relationships the CD assumes the more submissive feminine role while the man assumes the dominant protective role. Same goes in the bedroom. Masculinity complements femininity.
If you are in a CD relationship with your husband then its not fair for both of you. Because we all know you both deep down want real men as partners. Reine dont take this the wrong way but maybe you are bisexual? That is the only way I see the relationship with your CD husband working lol