The part of us admirers are attracted to that you are focusing on isn't the only thing they are attracted to. Seanmuscle said it himself, he is only attracted to CDs that can pass. Even CD admirers have standards. He may be attracted to your boy parts but that is only a small piece of the whole picture. So when a guy flirts with you it is a sign that your womanly parts, the parts you actually put effort into making less masculine, check out. And as I tried to imply in the OP, most of the time men don't even know I have boy parts to hide when they start out so it all doesn't really bother me at all.