I think most SO's react to the cross dressing act, but are likely more afraid of being left alone should you decide to transition. While you have told her that you do not want SRS, perhaps you need to have further, deeper discussions on the ""why" of cross dressing. On occasion, my wife will tell me that she is happy I went out, but is worried for me that I will have a bad experience. The truth is, very,very few cross dressers can pass completely. The best most of us can hope for is confusion from our audience. Maybe she is worried about your safety or ego? All you can do is talk, talk, talk
