Kelsy, if you are not living fulltime, then it is very hard to convince a transsexual that you
are truly transsexual because it is obvious you can be comfortable living who you are & I
know that personally I cannot be comfortable living that way. Before I transitioned I could
not expect others to take me serious if I was to say that I was a transsexual. That is why
I never made these claims to my ex-girlfriends when I told them other aspects of who I was
and my sexuality. I use to tell my girlfriends that "I felt like a lesbian in a male body". But how
could I expect them to take me seriously when I was not living full-time already as a female?