Can I just say, that what most people do not want to hear is “in your face realism” Kate’s point stands regardless of all arguments to the contrary! How many women want to be sporting a penis? Enjoying and keeping your penis points to someone who may have different motivations than purely transsexual ones! Even the OP has admitted that Katie’s post was helpful, be it unsettling! Personally I would rather someone to tell me the truth than P** up my back and tell me it’s raining. Attacking people for agreeing with Kate’s point is what is unwarranted
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