My point exactly!
No. The main difference is that at the end of the day the CD changes clothes and resumes his regularly scheduled cisgendered life. For the TS this IS our life! This is not something we do, it's what we are. A TS wearing women's clothing is no more a cross dresser than a GG wearing women's clothing. It's not a pastime, it's just our daily clothing.
That is a typical experience of many who have posted in this thread.