Well, now we're jumping to a whole different plane of excuses. I was addressing the oft repeated complaint that women don't like CD's. The truth is women don't like creepy jerks or douche-bags no matter how they're dressed.Originally Posted by Krystalina
In regard to the acceptance of your particular location that's something you're going to have to work out on your own. I used to live in Bakersfield (redneck,religious,conservative), but I moved to the SF Bay Area when I decided to come out as gay back in 2006. Somebody stronger than me would have just stayed there and lived their lives, but I had to find some other way. If you're a CD then you only really need to come out to a tight circle of friends, but if you're so closeted that you never even go out dressed at all, not even in the nearest city, then you will have a very difficult time meeting a woman that will accept you because you're a long way from accepting yourself. You have no hope of being relaxed and confident if you harbor that kind of fear and shame.
I also think it's interesting that most of the closeted CD's around here have stated at one time or another that they would "kick somebody's ass" or whatever, and typically those threads turn into a toughest man on the internet contest as everybody chimes in about their various skills at ass kicking, but these are the same guys that are apparently scared of the men in their lives, or all men for that matter. I've known a few tough guys in my life, been lucky enough to date a couple and those guys didn't strike me as being very easy to intimidate. Is it possible that people on the internet are just full of crap?
