wyrm - I have not seen anyone mention Craigs list. Before you all jump, yes,there is a small chance it is risky but i have been using it for many years and have met a lot of really nice guys. There are a lot of guys looking for Cd girlfriends but sometimes you have to weed through the trash. I seldom advertise for sex so usually say i am looking for a romantic BF, in shape etc. We meet, have dinner and decide if we want to meet again. I have had several long term BF's using CL and never once had a bad experience. You need to learn to identify the losers and the sex only types but it is not hard to do. It is so much more productive than the adult sites as you can specifically say what you want. Try it, even if you never meet them, you will get an idea who is out there looking for you and believe me, there are plenty.
