I'm not arguing this but in what way are they creepy? What is it about them that makes them creepy?
I think plenty is an exaggeration. Some tolerate and an even smaller number enjoy cross dressers. Even some of the ones tolerating probably shouldn't really be with a cross dresser. The unmarketability of straight crossdressers is demonstrated easily online. There is just no demand.
Yeah self pity is never an attractive feature. But being placed anywhere else but typical on the trans spectrum is a tough gig. The avenues for anyone not passable are distinctly narrow.





