Quote Originally Posted by max View Post
I have seen many many many male-identified people echo the opposite sentiment from real-life experience on this site. I have not seen male-identified people echo the sentiment that you describe (ease of pickup dressed as a woman) from their real-life personal experience. It appears the actual results agree with Shelby's statement.
Only because men in general are clueless about women, and cross-dressing men are even more so. (lots of fun generalizations there)

The problem is a huge percentage of the CD's that I've met are creepy as hell and they will never have any luck finding women until they get over themselves. If you find that every woman you meet is somehow not interested, than I wouldn't be doing you any favors by blaming the women. If you can't meet a girl, then there is something wrong with YOU not the girls.

I've found that people who are unable to accomplish things, whatever that may be, are usually the same people who immediately blame something else for the failure. "Women don't like cross-dressers" is a commonly heard lament (excuse) but it simply is not true. SOME women don't like cross dressers or MOST women don't like cross dressers sure, but there are PLENTY of women who do. Women who would proudly date or even marry a CD man if they could only find one that isn't creepy as hell.

I'm sure that my comments will irritate many of the excuse makers but the truth hurts and until CD's are able to own who they are and not walk around with a 'poor me' chip on their shoulder they will be absolutely right in assuming that women don't want them.