I know its dumb but shaving is still a huge thing for me. Its all about what it represents. Also leaving the house and going out in the real world. I can somewhat tolerate going to on meeting a month. But that probably doesnt satisfy stephs need to pass in the real world. In addition to all of that steph probably feels female on the inside. Yes its still the same person, but becoming aware of the inside persona is another thing I cant deal with from a HUSBAND. None of these would be an issue for me if it wasnt my spouse.
