Thanks for pointing this out, but I didn't actually miss it. I intentionlly left out genderfluid / genderqueer / androgynous because the OP was specifically asking about body modification in the transsexual forum, and I wanted to stay on track and answer max' comment.
I take that as a given unless I have evidence to the contrary. We, as transsexual folks, constantly assert that gender and sex are two different things. My earlier posts were directed at the OP as questions to clarify what she wants. The OP addressed her own sexual issues and stated that dressing was a turn-on and that she wanted girl parts without transition.
I agree, but that does not seem to be the case here.