In the many years that I've been going out, especially in downtown Toronto, Miami, N.Y. in gay bars and drag clubs, girls shopping trips, meeting online girls for coffee etc. I've probably met two hundred girls. From drag queens to novice CDs, post ops and french maids with beards, l've met all kinds. They have all shared two things in common.
None of them passed the 'we just had coffee and chatted, and I had NO idea you weren't a natal woman' test.
They were ALL out and about, and enjoying the real world, presenting as they cared to.
Passing is a wonderful goal, best left as part of your hobby. If 100% passing is the only way you'll get out the front door...enjoy the view from your window.-Celeste
