Wow! Thanks all for posting. I knew that more people like luca existed. I guess its just nice to post and ask about it. I know that being a part of this forum has helped our relationship more than most of you know. I also just have liked getting to know you gals/guys. I guess the sad truth is that luca got to see a lot of that competition side that was talked about. He never personally was victimized because the only pictures he had here were in full femme gear that I did with him and he looked really good. Hopefully I can show him this thread and tell him; "See people here are like you and there are plenty of great gals on here who wont judge you for not dressing to the nines."
I know that there is no correct way to cd. I tell him this all the time. Sometimes its the ocassional judgemental person on here that needs to be reminded that its not "their way or the highway" I guess my post was kinda to point a finger at them and yell "stop!"