I can understand Luca's original concerns. After reading more and more of the threads on the forum, a theme becomes apparent, some girls describe CDing as a transition. You'll go from wearing panties, to dressing fully, to venturing out and then transitioning to a female. Some even venture to insinuate that this will happen to you too. If you don't believe it you're only fooling yourself.
After a while it's become a bit clearer, these girls are very enthusiastic about what they've discovered about themselves and want to share it with the world. That's wonderful, I'm very happy for them.
But not everyone feels the same or will travel that same path.
I can only speak for myself here, but my "interest" in dressing is an outlet for me to express and experience my feminine side. The part that for so long felt it had to be "hidden" from the world. Now I have a fun outlet for those feelings.
The unintuitive consequence is by expressing my feminine feelings I'm a better man to my wife, daughter, family and most of all, me.
The truth is I dress for me and me alone. It's something that completes me as a human being. I'm content with dressing at home and taking photos. In my mind it's a very self oriented and loving manner in which to treat myself.
I've no interest in going out in public, or in transitioning. Sorry to you girls on the "forefront" of the battle for acceptance, but this girl will not be out and about pushing the boundaries.
This forum does fulfill something wonderful, it's a living demonstration that I'm not alone or "weird" because I find it fun to dress in women's things. That in itself is amazing.
Thank you.
Amanda
