Of course there is a place for him here. There is a place for everyone here...this is a community and needs input from everyone no matter what their particular interest is relating to CD.
Not everyone feels the need to dress completely, makeup, wig and all and go out in public. Not everyone feels the need to wear an entire outfit to satisfy their need. We are all different, yet the same and that's what's so wonderful about this forum.
You probably find more people talking about breastforms, wigs, makeup and such because they are the more vocal of the group. Many members may simply read the posts and not participate as much because that's who they are. Others post many, many times because they prefer to interact more. Personally, I love going out, I enjoy wearing my forms, wig and makeup and making myself look as much like other women as possible and being part of the world as a woman. In that vein I participate in many of the threads, while I'm sure that others may focus their interest in only one or two.
We gals come in a wide spectrum, just a the general population does. That diversity is what makes the world so interesting and makes us interesting as human beings.Tell him he's certainly welcome, give it time and he will find his place.