What can I say - I'm probably a lot like your wife only I don't tend to swing back and forth so much as plant down my feet and insist I don't like it, lol.
Still, I think she's definitely behaving normally for what can be a very abnormal situation. Though, I do recall she knew all this at the beginning? Not that this stops the swinging back and forth, to be honest. We girls are good at changing how we feel about things depending on the wind! Maybe she's just coming to the realisation that perhaps you're further along the spectrum than either of you realized and she's not comfortable with it?
Have you done your own soul-searching? Do you know where this is going?
If you answered 'no' I think this is definitely an issue as women do prefer stability in relationships, even those more accepting of alternative lifestyles as I know your wife to be (you do talk very proudly of her here so I think she'll be pleasantly surprised) So she may feel on shaky ground if you're 'rocking the boat' so to speak with your personal discovery?
But what do I know - I'm a GG who makes her H leave the house before he even CONSIDER dressing. My advise here is akin to dust...I should be asking YOU for help
