But as long as it's a very minor part of your life, I don't feel it's a moral imperative to reveal everything.
I agree. And here's my test: If you discuss it on an Internet forum and have made more than 100 posts in the last 4 months, then it's not a minor-enough part of your life to sweep under the rug.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.