NicoleA, I suspect this will turn out as well as you handle it.
Sure, plenty of GGs don't like CD (myself included)and wouldn't chose to be with someone who does this. BUT we can learn to tolerate and in some cases even accept this side of a spouse. Even after years of not knowing - yes, we can.
But the marriages that tank quickly from my witness of other GGs are the ones where the H tells his SO because he has decided for whatever reason he needs validation or acceptance or whatever, so he tells his wife and THEN decides to dress every frickin' spare second he can find. He goes out, buys endless items and even thinks she might want to join in. He basically shoves CD down her throat and believe me, none of the GGs I know who've experienced this appreciated it, lol
Yep, these marriages can go south quickly. Not all will fall apart, as Isha is testament that some partners are okay with rapid change. I'd suggest though, that most are destroyed with this behavior.
So whatever you do, have a long think why you told her NOW, and if it's to dress more or involve her, I'd tread very carefully. Good luck.
