Quote Originally Posted by JessM. View Post
Agreed. It's possible to get past the secrecy (especially if she understands that the whole thing was just a vague impulse in your mind, or something that has emerged gradually over time, rather than a clear-cut identity you were hiding all along). But if the Big Reveal is followed by the Pink Fog, in which you act like a kid in a candy store and assume that this should be as delightful for her as it is for you, that doesn't lead anywhere good.
I have definitely found myself influenced by the Pink Fog in the past few days, but after years of repression I think that was somewhat inevitable. However I feel as if things are starting to balance out again, which I think can only be good for my relationship.