'Newbie here' Do I need to see a professional help?

[Michele Tara]

Michele Tara, in the post above mine you write:

"I'd love to be dressed and extremely feminine and be taken by a handsome man but I am not attracted to men at all and when i was once kissed by a gay guy I found it disgusting (no offence, it just wasnt my thing)."

I encourage you to look into the attraction to the self as a woman. If you were truly attracted to men, you would not have felt disgusted.

I agree with your overall point, but just wanted to say that I'm attracted to men, and yet sometimes I don't like kissing particular men.

Well, that's true. LOL. But I think for Michele it was more about the notion that she had kissed a guy. A lot of members here have shared similar stories.

Sorry, maybe i should start a separate thread, i dont mean to hijack this one and hope its relevent to Nirali as it seems we are coming from a similar place.

Im not attraceted to men, I mean I can appreciate handsome guys but not in way i would want to do anything. but when im submissive and in feminine mode I would love to be dressed up and seen as attractive. For me its a very sexual experience and I'd love to be taken or to do very naughty things to a guy but not anyone specific and if i try and imagine their face i cant as it turns me off. (although other parts of their body i can imagine well!) Having said that, in my normal day i'm quite alpha male and girls like me, its just that when i sleep with them i sometimes wish i was in their body and they were in mine.

does that make any sense at all or am i crazy? Does this sound familiar Nirali? good luck with the appointment x