Quote Originally Posted by Michele Tara View Post
Having said that, in my normal day i'm quite alpha male and girls like me, its just that when i sleep with them i sometimes wish i was in their body and they were in mine.

does that make any sense at all or am i crazy? Does this sound familiar Nirali?
Michelle and Nirali, you're both new here. Believe me when I say that we have many, many threads about CDers who want to be with men when dressed, yet they say they are turned off when the reality presents itself. This is because they are not attracted to the men and the reality of being two naked male-bodied individuals having sex is a turn off for them. They are rather attracted to the thought of themselves as sexy and desirable women and the imaginary guy is the perfect foil for this. A prop so to speak.

Of course there are also CDers who are genuinely gay and bi, I would guess at about the same percentage as there are gay men to hetero men who are not CDers, or maybe a bit more. Who knows. But gay and bi CDers tend to enjoy men when they're not dressed too.