But I think it's true that we tend to expect them to stick to the standard male practices and get annoyed when they don't.
Long before I knew anything about CDing except what's in pop culture, I found one boyfriend's voice irritating because it was high pitched, and I found my husband's preference for sitting when urinating to be weird. Obviously I married him anyway, but I did think it was odd that he wouldn't stand up to pee "like men do."