Quote Originally Posted by JessM. View Post
Nevertheless, I don't like spending time with her -- it feels to me like spending time with a new person, someone I don't particularly like.
Why do you not like "her"? Is there something in particular? I might be completely wrong but it seems as though you accept your husband being dressed as another person, so what is wrong with this 'other person' that you don't like? I'm curious because I have someone I'm in a relationship with and I came out to her (before the relationship went any further...) and she seems to be ok with the idea, but she's never met Melissa. What I don't want to do is become "that annoying other half" to her that turns her off and makes her unhappy.

Thanks,

~Mel