What I have a problem with is many had this need to cross dress and probably did for many years before they met their SO. Why would you hide that desire from your future spouse? I see all kinds of posts justifying crossdressing and how their SO's should accept them. We see post after post over the years where marriages end because of it. And they repeat the same thing, not disclosing before their next marriage and then wondering why doesn't my So accept it. I suspect that for many here it goes much deeper than just putting on woman's clothes. They are just not truthful with themselves or their spouses.
If you don't come clean with your girlfriend before you get married. Don't be that surprised when your wife wants out after she discovers your secret.
